My next step was to ask him a simple question "what do you wear when you are home ?". He said that he wore his faded long shorts and a round neck worn out T shirt.
Now, friends, what he lacked was VISUAL AUTHORITY at home. His children did not find him eligible for respect . Some how, subconsciously they had formed an image of their father based on the way he dressed himself . He was being treated as one of them by his children. He did not have the Image of a Father figure.
So, Visual authority is the authority you are able to generate in your personality just by the way you dress up and carry yourself. For eg:- a man from the armed forces automatically garners more respect and authority than a normal civil guy only based on his whole countenance.
